Someone from work asked me today what kind of man my husband was. My face immediately went into a huge smile because I know how lucky I am to have someone like him in my life. My first thought was sassy. But then I went on to explain the man I've spent the last 8 years with.
He is intelligent: Even though he doesn't think he is, I know he is smarter than me.
He is funny, and he knows it: I have spent the last 8 years laughing and I don't take one second of that for granted. Without laughter, both of us would be in a seriously dark place. We have been through ups and downs, but through it all, we have laughed.
He is kind: I have never met someone as generous and selfless as Drew. Every day that passes I am surprised by his ability to give to others.
He loves unconditionally, always: I have never felt more special, or more adored than when I am with him. He loves others more than he could ever love himself.
He sees the beauty in things I miss: Sometimes I wish I had the ability to look through his beautiful eyes because I know I would see everything differently. Yes he has bad days, but on the whole his eyes smile as much as his mouth does. I have never seen someone who has the ability to pull something positive out of a situation, even if he is only joking.
He treats me unlike anyone else: There has always been some crazy and extreme expectations placed on my shoulders. Drew treats me like an equal, always asking what I want. What works best for me. He never places crazy amounts of pressure on me. If anything, he keeps me grounded while still encouraging me to be the best possible version of myself.
He loves our dog with everything he has: One of my favorite books is the Harry Potter series (all 7 books). In Harry Potter and the Order of the Pheonix, one of the main characters, Sirius Black tell Harry that the best way to measure someone is to judge how he treats his inferiors, not his equals. I have seen Drew interact with family, friends, children, neighbors, etc. He is always kind. But when I see him with our puppy, my heart melts. I know he loves her, and he would do anything for her. It makes me see the potential in his eyes. I know his is going to be an amazing father, unlike my own. He will protect his family with his life, even his dogs.
He is the most amazing provider: We have spent countless nights apart, and he has spent the following days holding me up when I feel like my legs have given out. He has sacrificed everything to make sure we have the essentials, and that we are able to set up a future.
He never lies to me: I know what you're thinking, of course he lies. Well I am sure he does, we all do. But he never lies about the important stuff. He loves me enough to tell me if a pair of pants makes my ass look big, if my clothes don't match (rainbow brite) and if I am acting like a total tool. He knows he can tell me anything, big or small and because he knows this, I know all of the potentially hurtful things he says are said with love.
He helps out around the house: On top of working crazy hours, balancing two jobs, and sleeping less than 6 hours a night, he still finds time to do laundry, dishes, sweep, walk the dogs, and other important things. While he doesn't typically cook, he is awesome at knowing when to order take out.
All in all, I have to say that I am extremely blessed. I have an amazing husband who also happens to be my best friend. If you are ever wondering if your significant other possesses what it takes to be an amazing spouse, take a look at this list. It may mean nothing to you, but to me, it is everything.
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